Should women have sex with their husbands or partners every night? For most ladies we have loads of reasons why this is a terrible idea: we get tired, we have a food baby, we have an actual baby (and our body never quite looks the same again...) and sometimes we'd just prefer to spend the evening on the couch eating cheese. Yum.
But, are we just looking at the negatives? I mean surely there's got to be a reason we once spent our days thinking about when we'd next get the opportunity to rip the clothes off our beloved's beautiful body? Right? Right?
Blogger Meg Conley has some interesting ideas on the subject - and she thinks women should have sex with their men every, single, night! What?
Here's her reasons why:
1. Having sex makes you feel like a woman!
“ Yes, I am a cook, cleaner, teacher, and wiper of all things disgusting. But I am also something more, something delightful and completely apart from my roles.” she writes, admitting parenthood can make any woman feel unfeminine.
"I am a woman! And there is potential and depth and heck, I am pretty darn good kisser, too. It is a lovely thing, finding yourself through the touch of someone else.”
2. If you want your husband to act like a man, you need to treat him like a man – simple.
“Women need any number of criteria met to feel loved. Men are far simpler. They need to be fed, they need to be appreciated, and they need to have sex.”
She suggests making or ordering dinner once in a while, saying thank you for long hours at work with a hug and smile and getting naked.
“My goodness, let the poor man see you naked. It is astounding what a good man will do for a good woman that has made him feel loved. After a few weeks of meals and make outs, you will sit back and wonder why you didn't insist on having sex every night sooner. Talk about a small investment and big returns.”
3. It's important couples have alone time together.
Reminding readers of earlier, friskier years, Meg reminds her readers to spend quality time with the man you love.
“Remember that boy? The one that made your heart thump and hands sweat? The one that called when you hoped he would, that made you run hot and high up to the stars until you thought you would never come down? He is still there.” Nawwwww!
4. It's fantastic stress relief!
For most of us – this should be enough to covince us!
“As a mother I eat stress for breakfast. So it seems to me I have a choice. I can let off steam by A) driving around at night and bashing in strangers mailboxes or B) I can get down and dirty with that one guy I married that one time. I choose option B. ”
Can't argue with that, can you?
5. Because it's just damn fun!
"Why are we so quick to refuse the good things in life? We will slog through our children's Algebra homework, do Zumba in public and pluck the hair from our body ONE PIECE AT A TIME. But tell a girl to have sex every night and she looks at you like you are crazy, An orgasm? Every night? What do I look like? A Nymphomaniacal Super Woman?"
What do you think? Do women have too much pressure already? Are these good enough reasons to sleep with your man every night?
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